Thursday, February 14, 2019

RAMBLINGS

Was re-reading some of my old blogs recently.

 My goal- was to see where my mind was back then - but, also to see just how far it has slipped since 2008, when the personal blogs began..

So, what was learned? Quite a bit, I'd say and  - a reminder that it wasn't the sharpest knife in the drawer 10 or 11 years ago either..

Then, why keep writing them?  Not that hard to answer.

We're a mobile society - particularly if we desire promotions, more money, a larger home and a real awareness of  whether we really wanted to attend all of those future high school reunions.

The mobility experience has often been conducive in conquering some of the desired perks; but it's not without it's potential impact on family relationships.

It's one thing to see your new born grandchild on Skype. It's a whole different experience to be close by and that day hold them against your face while taking in that unique new baby smell. (the good one - that is)

Some might suggest that keeping family close is a real plus. Others, not so much

One memory from a good friend, who unfortunately passed away much too young, was his frequent retelling of how his parents journey in life, including their home locations, consistently reflected the geographical destination that accompanied his latest promotion..

Sort of a "Groundhog Day" image of  "Everybody Loves Raymond".

Now retired, my highlight film would have to include being with family while vacationing for 4 to 6 six months a year in Pennsylvania , avoiding that Florida summer heat and pollen count and enjoying the comfort of a furnished apartment located three hours away from their Pennsylvania residences.

A photo of me right now would accompany my memory of the many happy family gatherings witnessed in person  as well as the smile that is splattered over this retirees craggy Irish face.

So, why write blogs?

It's a connection - (with perhaps an occasional thought about legacy thrown into the mix.)

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